zindangi

har lamha daudti, muskurati, rulati,

yeh zindangi ek railgadi,

har station par naye musafir,

har musafir ko bulati bithati,

naam aur kaam se matlab nahin,

har kissi ko apnati,

apni manzil par pahuch musafir ko chod

phir nayi rahoon pe nikal jati,

na iski rahein khatam hoti,

na hi yeh khud ko rok pati,

daudti, bhagti, hasati, rulati,

yeh zindangi ek railgadi.

Life = leveraging internal forces and energies

Life for me it means leveraging internal forces and energies. Getting to know what actually we are. Through continuous reading of different books on behaviour and human excellence I came to this conclusion that if we want we can train our brain into whatever we want ourselves to achieve. Our emotions, our body, our intellect, everything is in our control and we can handle all these. We have the steering wheel for every possible thing by which can create or destroy our destiny then why there are only few who are successful and rest live a mediocre life.

If we can make our destiny and all the answers are lying inside us then why are we not able to find the answers. I read in some books that we do not ask the right questions and that is why we do not get the right answers. If we knew that the question we are asking is not right at that moment we definitely would change it, but the question lies how to know whether the question is right or wrong. If we keep on thinking about every step we are taking and we start analyzing all our actions it will be very difficult for us to perform in this world. Then what is the right way so that we can achieve our goals and at the same time be content with the quality of life we have created for ourselves.

part iii

People doing an extraordinary work get an extraordinary result and they are considered to be extraordinary people and that is because of an intention which is slightly extra than ordinary. They think they can achieve what they want to. They believe that achievement is a natural thing which follows if you have the right intention and action towards the achievement and you will get it in due course of time. Achievement belongs to those who do something extra even if they have to take some extra pain for that. They believe they can be as successful and competent as anyone else. These people are usually not smarter or talented than anyone else but they have the right intention. Intention makes the difference. Achievement is very easy to get because there are not too many people that are seriously after what they can achieve in their lives because they do not know the power of intention, which can ultimately turn into your potential to achieve what you want to achieve in your life.

Part ii

Our intentions and behavior is being controlled by so many people and events out there that we are not able to decide whether we are what we are or as Shakespeare said we are mere puppets on this stage and others are controlling us and enjoying what they are doing. We half of the time are not even aware of the intentions with which we are working for on a particular task. These are the people of our environment. That’s why it’s so important for us to control our intentions.

A poor intention acts as a magnet for unpleasant experiences. We get what we demand out of our life and our outlook towards life is a kind of pencil and with this we will make a sketch of our outside world. It can be bright picture or a dark one, it can have rays of hope and it can have dullness and darkness. The world we experience is a reflection of our intention.

We should never wait for the people in our environment to react first for what we want, we should act first. We should be nice to them instead of waiting for them to be nice to us all the time. Sitting in front of a gas and waiting for it to light up automatically is silly. We should burn the fire inside us so that people can get the heat out of it. This is our car of life, we need to fill in the petrol and hold the steering so that it goes in the direction where we want it to go. Our intentions work as the steering wheel which will guide our behaviors and action into the direction where we want our car to reach as final destination.

Intentions

“Intention” is the magic word. You are responsible for how your life turns out, and your intention shapes that life for better or worse. Develop a winning intention. Each of us creates his or her own life largely by our intentions behind our actions. We all want good results. A healthy intention is our best guarantee. Intention is defined as the reason for doing any action, feeling or mood. And it is our actions, feelings or moods that determine the actions, feelings and moods of others. Our intention tells the world what we expect in return. Make yours expectant and cheerful. You get what you expect. You can control your intention. Set it each morning. The world will reflect back to you the intention you present to them. It is then, our intention toward life that determines life’s intention toward us. We get back what we give out. Others treat us as we treat them. They only respond back to the behavior which we are presenting in front of them. As it is said every action has an equal and opposite reaction. They only give us back a reflection of our own intention. Our environment is a mirror. What we sow we’ll reap. What we give we’ll get. Change your intention or behavior and your surroundings will change. Each of us shapes his or her life largely by our habitual intention.

from son to dad

A letter from son to father,

you might have seen so many posts from fathers to son, this one from a son. A son who is always at mistake because he is learning and father says when will you learn. He becomes a father and still commits mistake and father says when will you learn. A son has only one thing to say. If i will learn i will not require a father and i need you always with me. I need you to make understand always, guide me. sometimes i commit mistakes just to feel that you are there to hold me. I am not a criminal i am just a person who is misguided and i always want you there to guide me. No matter how big i become i will be a misguided tourist for you always. i cannot leave you. i want you as my guide always.

Love you dad.

Intentions

Success comes automatically once we start loving our work. It should not be a burden but it should be a passion. We should not do any work for the sake of doing it, not even studies because then the whole intention behind that work goes wrong and that itself is a crime. If we cannot be true to ourselves in doing something how can it be right for someone else. If we are doing something the intention behind that work should be clear as to why we want to do that particular task.

Life has so many aspects and work which it wants us to do. We just need to identify the basic intention behind that work and then start doing it. If the intention we feel is not right we should not indulge in that activity, because during a person’s lifetime there are so many times when he is not able to see the intention behind the work and he ends up committing a big mistake. When we say that some person is great, is a visionary, a leader, what he does? He just sees the basic intention behind the work he is doing and then he decides whether to do that task or not. Once we start seeing the intention behind the things we can also come into the category of a leader, or a visionary.